Guys Suck or Guys Are Awesome?

I have a roommate. Her name is Naomi. And often she says this:  "Boys are so distracting! I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't think straight, I can't focus. Everything just goes back to him. Guys just suck." What this really means is that she loves boys. Girls love being distracted by boys. We like to complain and say how annoying boys are and how they toy with our emotions and our hearts...blah, blah, blah, but we make it that way. More often than not, girls make boys a big deal. Why is that? Why do girls make boys distracting?  And I'm not exempt from this torturous thinking. It's a disease. A full blown medical disease that infects girls hearts leaving them to rot in the dust. Okay...that was a little dramatic, but it's true.  I guess why girls indulge in this idyllic thinking is for a distraction. At least, that's what I do. I tend to think about boys because I tend to have negative thinking, which thinking about boys doesn't help, but it gives me something to look forward to. Something to make me feel like my life is worth it. This is a terrible ideology because deep down inside I KNOW my life is worth it with or without boys. But what do you think? Why has this become such a blatant ideology for us girls?